Memoria vs OurFamilyWizard
OurFamilyWizard is a paid, court-grade co-parenting tool built for high-conflict cases. Memoria is a simple shared custody calendar for cooperative co-parents — free tier, one household plan.
OurFamilyWizard is the co-parenting platform courts often recommend or mandate: tamper-proof messaging, a documented tone-check on messages, and records designed to hold up as legal evidence, on a paid annual subscription billed per parent. For separated parents in a high-conflict or litigated custody situation, that legal-grade paper trail is exactly the point. But most co-parents are not in court — they simply need to agree on who has the kids when, and to stop losing the school circular and the fee note between two homes. Memoria is built for those amicable co-parents: a shared custody calendar both households see, role-based access, and reminders that fill themselves from what either parent forwards — on a free tier, with a single ₹299/month household plan, and no per-parent fee. Memoria does not pretend to be a legal-evidence tool; if you need court-admissible records, OurFamilyWizard is the right choice.
Side-by-side
| Feature | OurFamilyWizard | Memoria |
|---|---|---|
| Built for | High-conflict / court-ordered co-parenting | Amicable, cooperative co-parents |
| Court-admissible message records | Yes — its whole purpose | No — not a legal-evidence tool |
| Billing model | Paid annual subscription, per parent | Free tier; one ₹299/mo household plan |
| Cross-domain (school, vehicles, appliances, documents) | Co-parenting only | Five domains + vault |
| AI capture (WhatsApp / email / photo OCR) | No | Yes (Pro) |
| Multi-language UI | English | 12 (incl. 9 Indian) |
1 things Memoria covers that OurFamilyWizarddoesn’t.
- AI capture (WhatsApp / email / photo OCR). OurFamilyWizard: No. Memoria: Yes (Pro).
Switching from OurFamilyWizard to Memoria.
There is no two-way sync — but there is no lock-in either. One-time, one-way, no data left behind.
- Forward your last month. Send your most recent OurFamilyWizardentries — school circulars, fee notes, warranty cards, insurance emails — to your Memoria number or email alias. Captures parse and back-fill in a day.
- Pin the Memoria reminder feed. Once your items are in, the calendar and reminder feed become the daily surface. Keep OurFamilyWizard open in parallel for the first 30 days to verify nothing slipped.
- Cancel when you are sure. After a month of parallel use, most households unsubscribe from OurFamilyWizard. Memoria keeps your full history, exports everything as an archive, and never holds your data hostage.
FAQ
Is Memoria a replacement for OurFamilyWizard in a custody case?
No, and it does not try to be. OurFamilyWizard produces tamper-proof, court-admissible records for high-conflict or litigated custody — Memoria does not. Memoria is for amicable co-parents who need a shared calendar, documents and reminders both homes can see. If a court has asked you to use a documented communication tool, use OurFamilyWizard.
Why would amicable co-parents pick Memoria instead?
Because most cooperative co-parents are paying for legal-grade features they never use. Memoria gives them the part they actually need — one shared custody calendar, renewal and fee reminders, and a document vault both homes can reach — on a free tier and a single household plan, rather than a per-parent annual subscription.
Will my data import automatically?
Forward your last month of items to your Memoria number or email — captures parse and back-fill in a day. There is no two-way sync; the migration is one-time and the source apps stay where they are.
Is my data private?
AES-256 encryption at rest with strict household-scoped access controls. We do not read your data; access is gated to verified members of your household. DPDP-2023 compliant from day one.